so i won't have to bury this piece down there in comments, here's something on the limitations of the mommy wars and how we really need to start talking about more important things - like, how our culture needs to change so that *all* mommies can do what they need to do.
from the article: "Maybe we can quit beating the dead mommy wars horse, and start talking about how family and work can fit together in the twenty-first century." [emphasis mine]
it's a fascinating site that's pro-mommy and pro-social change. it all goes to show: not all mommies are cut from the same mold.
The Mothers Movement Online